So, in general, life after company is always…well, lonely. When you’re an extreme extrovert like me, you require very little time to yourself (maybe more away from kids though
), so having family leave would not be your favorite thing. However, to make matters worse, I got very (read totally) lost at 4am on the way to take Mike and Phyllis to the airport. It felt like a movie- in the UK, nothing but tiny villages around you, no one to ask, no signs…lots of driver error, but praise the Lord, out of nowhere, a taxi pulled up behind me- I rolled down my window and asked if by chance he was headed to the airport. He was. That was you, Lord. We followed him and my in-laws made their flight- barely!! I came home caught 2 more hours of sleep, then we packed up and headed back into Aberdeen to help throw a farewell party for our dear friends, the Greens. The party was great, if I say so myself (and I do), but signaled my last time to see the Greens. Sigh. I don’t really want to talk about it. Suffice it to say I feel much of my married life has been saying goodbye in one form or another.
So, as a result, Josh has been spending a lot of time with us for several reasons- 1) he is a great husband and knows me well and that being isolated is hard for me, 2) he is a great father and loves hanging with the children, and 3) working from home is not as productive as you might think. We are glad he will have an office somewhat soon to go to so that we are not always distracting him.
Anyway, we are doing well- actually we are currently obsessed with LOST- the people we rented our flat from had Seasons 1 and 3, so we put off starting it because you may have noticed the lack of season 2. Well, we gave in and- you guessed it- bought Season 2 on ebay. We will sell it soon. We are in the middle of Season 3. Love it. (This is not an invitation to comment on the happenings- if you tell me something I don’t know, I will quit blogging. Pretty severe stakes, I know). We haven’t been in bed before 11:30 in I don’t know how long- we get in 4-5 episodes a night. Yikes.
Luke is still cutting his first molar and 2 more look imminent. He is doing better, though. I have deiced to start serving his dinner on the floor. Since he will eat any speck off the floor, maybe if I put peas or fruit (he will NOT eat fruit unless pureed) or meat on the floor, he will eat it…? His current obsession is climbing…mainly up the stairs or up a slide- much to my chagrin.
He is so me and gets frustrated very easily. On the flip side, he is absolutely precious when he achieves his goals because is soooooooooooooo proud of himself- he’ll just chuckle to himself as he scales something.
Rebekah is a nut, as always. I think she might be more articulate than I am. She is mini-mom to Luke, and often rebukes me for letting him have things he could choke on (in her opinion). She is his cheerleader and only gets perturbed when he wants soemthing that is hers, but really is such a good sport about it. Bekah is also super-creative and imaginative. She works with her “art supplies” every day and has such an imagination as she draws and pretends. I love it and encourage it all as much as possible. We are also working on Bible verse memory and she is very good with it. I am trying not to force it, though.
This cracked me up- evidently Mickie needed some bandages (made from stickers)-
This was her diaper- an empty package of fruit snacks placed exactly flat and on her bottom.
Last night was a ton of fun- I was putting Luke to bed and I heard a lot of laughter from outside. Josh was teaching Rebekah about “cracking an egg” on the trampoline. You remember- roll yourself up in a ball and clasp your hands around your legs, while the other person bounces you and tries to get you to let go. I was “invited” to join (R’s words) and I haven’t laughed that hard in a while. It was great fun. Rebekah and I played again today and I was mortified at my lack of trampoline skills- evidently having 2 babies has changed how long I can jump (and laugh) without wetting my pants and definitely the height of my toe touches, which kill now! Such a shame…I guess the kids are worth it.
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I think I'm glad we didn't have to crack an egg on the tramp while we were there!! We miss those little ones and the big ones too! Our house is so quiet. We love you and enjoy hearing about every day life in Scotland.
Nana
To start with, OOOOOOOs for you from me.
Secondly the doll diaper and bandaids made me and Elizabeth laugh out loud.
Thirdly I totally understand your addiction to Lost. Scott and I used to do the same thing. I miss Lost!!!!! I think we made it through 4 seasons. I won't ruin and thing, promise you. I keep thinking I should watch it on the treadmill this winter. It would surely make me forget about the pain and the adrenaline rush make me fun faster.
Finally, the trampoline, well…..take it from me. We should have enjoyed that activity BEFORE having children. My solution get yourself "equipped" to jump before hand with something absorbent. Get my drift?
I miss you so much. We must talk soon! Love you.
Thank you for the update! I love reading it all. I feel you and your married life being one goodbye after another. That is what living in Iowa City your whole life is like!
So fun that Rebekah is loving the art stuff! D doesn't care for coloring, but loves painting and playdoh!
Miss you and praying!
Hey stranger,
I'm sooo glad that you are enjoying LOST. Mark and I are totally addicted and haven't missed an episode. (So we have had to watch a couple a few days late via internet, but that doesn't count. Does it?) I'm so excited for the finale this year and to see what those fabulous minds have in store for us.
As for the tramp. My condolences. I've sad my goodbyes to trampoline days. I'm with Carrie and have to be "equipped", just for running to the park with Paige. So sad.
I love reading all your posts. Thank you for inviting us into your lives and showing us a bit of Scotland.
hey emily,
i have a confession…i'm a lurker. don't know if you remember me or not, but we were at shack together–suffering through english together, i believe. your family is beautiful, and it looks like you're having a wonderful time in scotland. what an opportunity! my husband, jeff, and i live in the dfw area and have a little girl named emory. you're welcome to read our blog…never updated anymore now that emory can walk. some day.
jill (walkinshaw) crownover
That's more like it. So want to come and take pics of Becca and thinking hard about when the best time will be. Will be in touch.
hey emily,
thanks so much for leaving a comment! i've actually updated in the last few days, too.
we did have similar addresses. i can't believe that you remembered that! jeff and i still go to fbc euless, too. we've been back there ~2 years after several moves across the south for his schooling. (long stories) love euless, though. found a good class with several friends from baylor.
so glad to have found you. i hated it when y'all moved "northwest"–now close to where we are
and i thought about you from time to time.
so crazy that through blogs we're talking across the ocean.